There's a difference between learning the lessons of the past and endlessly ruminating on what could have been, Xunxian.

[And while it is a trap he has himself fallen into on occasion - hello, two-month trip alone to get your doomed one-sided love out of your system - he also tends to be as ruthlessly practical about this as he is about anything else after a while.

And also he's not about to tell you to your face that he's been seeing Feifei because that seems needlessly cruel.]

Let's get you something to eat.