[That she even asks the question does show him has aware and sensitive she is to the circumstances. Most wouldn't even consider the possibility.]

In some ways, yes. If actual spirits are present, then offending them may cause more harm than good for the situation.

[That is always something to keep in mind. And taking into account the potential reactions of their intended audience...yes, it was always better to be cautious.]

But even so...I worry more for the deceptive nature of it. I acknowledge the usefulness and the necessity, but I am not...skilled in this. I am a terrible liar, honestly. I fair far better when as much fact or illusion of fact used.